Breaking the Rules

Have you ever fallen into the comparison trap?  Body image, fashion sense, book smarts, corporate (or non-corporate) success?  In some form or another, we’ve all started to compare ourselves to others in hopes of going with the flow or falling in with the trend.  Ok, generally the goal is to be true to yourself, especially if that means thriving in your different lifestyle or sharing your different personality.  But I’m sure there’s a small piece of you dying to be in the know.  Guilty as charged on too many accounts.

Recently I’ve found myself frustrated with blogging, mostly because of the pressure (put on by myself) to conform to that of other’s blogs.  Like I said, the pressure is all me – thinking that if I post multiple times about certain subjects, link up with different blogs, create recipes from scratch, and have impeccable photography, I’ll be successful.  This creates stress, anxiety, and just frustration that doesn’t need to be present in my life.

After reading an article about breaking the blogging rules here, I realized I’m perfectly happy with my blog.  I don’t have as large of a social media presence.  I don’t have a self-hosted blog (yet…that needs to happen so I can upload oodles of pictures).  I don’t know what workout to do and I don’t have the most inspirational or healthy recipes.  But when it’s all said and done, this little gem of a journal is my form of expression.

14 thoughts on “Breaking the Rules

  1. I love your blog just the way it is. And you. Don’t change a thing. Sometimes it’s fun to be a rebel and break the rules ❤

  2. Amen. I agree with Sarah and feel the same way about my blog. These are our spaces to do as we please. As long as we’re doing that/being true to who we are, I don’t think we can go wrong 🙂

  3. I fall into the comparison trap all the time! And I feel similar to what you feel, I don’t think my blog falls into a certain ‘niche’ , and sometimes it bugs me while other times it doesn’t. I’m trying to just keep in mind that it is MY space to do what I want with it 🙂 I love your blog the way it is! It’s why I keep reading 🙂

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